The Month of Love

Hi All,

With all this focus on love on the 14th Feb, what do you do? Do you hide away, ignore all the red hearts and gifts, or do you take part in this tradition wholeheartedly? Whilst we can't escape Valentines day, and we each have our own views around this, one thing IS for sure....we all need a little more love....starting with self-love...so lets remind ourselves of who we are, our uniqueness(yes, theres only one of us) and how special we are. Many Blessings

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Motto for the week:  "Three things can't be hidden: coughing, poverty, and love."- Yiddish proverb 

February is known as the month of LOVE. Lovers give each other gifts and show that they appreciate their partners. It’s meant to ignite romance and bring back the spark for those who need to be reminded.

Love is something that we all seek and need, whether we like to admit this or not. Some of us may be single during this period, some may dislike this time, because no matter where you look, sparkles, red hearts, cards and flowers follow you.

Ultimately no matter where we find ourselves in the game of love, the key to loving is to have an open heart and to be able to give and receive love freely.

This is an interesting concept, considering that this is the period where we are dealing with past issues, hurts and disappointments to do with past love, friends and even family. Having been hurt often closes the heart to love again. There is distrust present and we block the flow of love because we fear being hurt again.

We are being urged during this period, to look at how we love ourselves, if at all. It is time to take stock of how we are treating ourselves and whether there is old unforgiveness present as we judge ourselves too harshly.

As a practitioner, I see many clients and almost everyone is harder on themselves than on others. Most put the needs of others before themselves and they treat others with kindness and love, even when those are undeserving of it. However when looking at themselves, they have all but abandoned their needs and in some cases sacrificed their souls.

Why is it that love which is all to clear in its many forms, is often hardest when applied to oneself?

Our relationships teach us about ourselves, parts of ourselves that we have yet to discover, parts we deny, parts we disown. All these aspects of self are mirrored in those around us.

Sometimes we may be baffled at what is reflected back at us. We are not jealous. However when looked at closely, we have all been jealous of someone or something at some point in our lives. Could this be a part of ourselves we have denied or disowned and now is magnified and reflected at us through another? Each time we disown or not acknowledge a part of ourselves, we don’t love ourselves enough.

This week let us look at and discover all the parts of ourselves that make us who we are and lets bring them together and let us love the whole “us”!!

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Inner Change- A Reflective Time

Are you feeling a change that you can't quite put your finger on? Do you find that you feel fear, confusion and that old issues that you thought you had cleared are re-emerging?
You may be surprised that many people are feeling this way, many a battle is happening within. Yes, the world energies are going through a rapid shift and as you are all connected through this energy, you too will experience some of the turmoil that is happening in the world. The natural disasters are just part of the changes.Countries will also have to shift and this may mean re connecting with old laws and rules that have to do with structure and order. 
However for each person this shift will be unique and individual, but one thing is for sure, it is happening.Somehow the old ways of being will no longer fit in with this new energy. Relationships will be tested and those that are flawed without a proper foundation will not last.


So what can you do to make it a lot easier? Simply is the answer. Its not a time to complicate things. Go with what works and what doesn't work or has too many obstacles needs to be released. Although the energies are creating fast changes, your progress is best when taken slow. Think things through and be sure before you proceed with any changes you wish to make.
Go for a walk, meditate and then reflect if the current changes will serve you in the best way possible. For some there is much confusion, especially those who are logical thinkers and not connected to their hearts. The mind alone is not enough because the changes come through emotions.
it's a good time for you to start to keep a journal and note the changes and old patterns that need clearing. By writing this down, half the battle is won. You can then proceed step by step to clear negative feelings. Dreams coming through may also be profound, by writing these down you can see the patterns that are emerging for you.
We all need to change to live in our Truth and to lead authentic lives, this requires honesty with oneself and self expression.
Thats all for now folks.
Blessings to All


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The Law of Attraction

Motto for the week: The Law of Attraction states that what we put out to the Universe is exactly what we attract….the seen and the unseen.

Watch closely this week as to who or what pushes our buttons. We would all like life to run smoothly, and as we know what we experience is a direct result of our thoughts, beliefs and actions. Those we are aware of and those we are not. What ever is reflected in another can also be found in us. This applies to both our strengths and weaknesses. When our buttons are being pushed, we tend to focus on the negative qualities of the situation, rather than trying to figure out what the gift is. Sometimes it is to make us aware of what we do not want or how we do not want to be. It can also reflect back at us our deepest fears or parts of ourselves that we have disowned or disguarded and buried within our subconscious.

Nothing remains hidden forever, so all aspects of ourselves will make an appearance at one time or another and this is visible in the people around us and often magnified in some way.

So how can we see the gift and the lesson in that situation?

What we need to be aware of is that our ego likes drama and is that self righteous part of ourselves that makes an appearance when we feel wronged in some way. Now this is not to say we are always wrong in a matter, however being in ego mode hardly solves anything or leads to compromise.

The ego is always right and does not follow reason. It plays out the drama in our heads over and over again and each time we feel more right. However this is a shallow victory as we are being shown an aspect of ourselves that we may not like to admit we also have within us.

When ever our buttons are being pushed, we need to step back and find out why. If we can admit that we too have done this sort of thing to ourselves or another at some point, it helps us to bring perspective and balance to the situation.

Often, the lack of ability to forgive someone, actually means that we struggle to forgive ourselves.

Whilst it is true that no one is perfect and we need to be flexible about this, it does not mean we need to allow ourselves to be mistreated. That is were boundaries come in. it is learning when to say “No” to someone who may not have boundaries themselves. Most often this is most difficult to do with families as we have a certain sense of responsibility or even guilt with regards to certain members.

However it is all about lessons and learning how to spot what this is before matters get worse. Its about developing a deeper sense of love and understanding for ourselves.

Can we accept that the person pushing our buttons may be giving us the biggest gift?

This week we are urged to look closely at who or what it is within our environment that pushes our buttons and why.

We need to remember that planet Earth is like a school where we learn and grow from the experiences that touch our lives. Whether it is a co-worker, boss, friend, partner or family member or situation, what this is teaching us? Do we see their attitude or the situation as a learning curve that we can move on from or are we stuck in old patterns?

The lesson this week is to take a deep breath, before we react, to look within ourselves to see what needs to change. By doing this we can change what we attract and we can raise our vibrations to attract the best outcome possible. Only 10% is what life throws at us, the other 90% is how we react and deal with it.

Let us use the 90% this week to react less and to look within to find the lesson we are meant to learn. Within the lesson lies the gift.